Are You Seeing Red Roses, Or Red Flags?

Some of you may know that many years ago, I was in a very abusive relationship.

Looking back, the red flags were definitely there. But I chose to see red roses instead, because I’m an optimist. Because I believe, deep down, that people are good.

But here’s the thing:

There comes a moment when we must stop romanticising the potential and start recognising the reality.

Back then, terms like narcissist, gaslighting or even red flags weren’t commonly used. There wasn’t language for what I was experiencing—but the behaviour still hurt, confused and wore me down.

Now, these terms help us give shape to what once felt like a blur. And they serve as reminders.

This email is your gentle nudge:

If something feels off, pay attention.

Whether it’s a relationship, a friendship, a work commitment or any situation—if you keep noticing red flags, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to protect your peace.

The Universe will always whisper first, then nudge, and if we don’t listen, it eventually sends the hammer.

So take this as your whisper.

Sending you health, harmony & highest vibrations.

With love, Lisa Marie

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